Question: First tell us something about yourself, like name, age, and some other things we would like to know about you...Let us call it a short bio.
Ray: Well as you can guess my name is Ray. I am over the hill (lol) at the tender age of forty-ish. I am just a few inches less than 6ft. I have dark almost black hair, green eyes. I weigh about 165 to 170 lbs. I was born in the glorious fucked up state of Utah (why I came back here still baffles me). I guess I know why, I was destined to meet the love of my life. Carlos. What I love the most about our relationship is that sexually we are on the same page, which makes life sweet. We have shared some hard times together through the last several years, we both have matching scars from surgery. He had Testicular cancer, his cancer spread to his lymph nodes, and I had Colon cancer… We are now going in to the 4th year cancer free. Before Carlos, I was married and have two kids from my marriage. My daughter is 20; my son just turned 19. My wife wanted the divorce after finding out that I was gay. I love being a father even though my wife did put me through the wringer for several years after we divorced. Yet as the years passed, my wife has come to accept me for who I am and we have remained friends throughout the years. I work in the hotel industry and have a good relationship with my workers something that pleases me because I am not all stuffy like some bosses. I try to treat people with respect, and I demand the same treatment in return. What else you want to know? Hmmm well, something’s should be, left to the imagination. Ok, ok, sexually I am versatile, and that is what I expect in a lover someone that does not label himself bottom or top. I am at least 30 percent top and the rest bottom.
Question: What are you wearing right now?
Ray: Can we talk about leather? It is a strap with a snap I think we call that a cock-ring. Yes, that is what I am wearing. I love the way it pulls my ball sack up tight. I can last for hours. I almost forgot my Yankee ball cap. You get the picture cock-ring and Yankee ball cap. Earlier I was wearing a gray pinstripe suit and tie, with a green shirt my belt was cordovan along with my shoes, my hanky matched my tie. I am such a fag when it comes to my appearance everything has to match. I don’t like anything but the best in my dress.
Question: What do you like the most about writing erotic stories?
Ray: I like that people read what comes out of my head. I throw a lot of myself in to my writing. I really get excited when someone tells me my stories did something for him or her. Being that it may have gotten them off, or perhaps maybe they got something else from it. I tend to write more dramatically than others. I know sometimes that can be a turnoff for the person that is looking to jack off quick to a fuck story low on plot, but high on sex action. There are readers on this site that do like a story with plot, which really is my target audience. Because that is my style of writing, I have written the quick fuck stories they are still in the fan club.
Question: Does your spouse or significant other know you write, and if so, what does he/she think?
Ray: Carlos is ok with me writing erotica, he personally doesn’t like to read my erotica. he feels it cheapens my talent. I write many mainstream non-sexual stories Carlos does read those. He also gets jealous he is from Puerto Rico and his Latin temper kicks in. So he just wont read them, we have had many an argument about it. He thinks I am still doing research. (lol.) Well, maybe, maybe not.
Question: Is it difficult for you to keep your writing life separate from your professional life?
Ray: Not really, I mean, I do not talk about my erotica at work that could be construed as sexual harassment. When I am at work, I am professional, I sometimes use my own laptop to finish a story or add a paragraph here or there. I am a General Manager, and I am gay and I live in Utah, so I have to be extremely careful about how I conduct myself at work.
Question: How did you come up with your ES nickname?
Ray: I have been using the name Indulger since Prodigy, some of you younger people may not even remember Prodigy. Anyway, in those days I was really a horn dog. I loved the internet Indulger pretty much said it all. It was a good word. I would always get the question so what do you indulge in? It was a good icebreaker, and it got me a lot of sex.
Question: What brought you to EroticStories.com? What made you want to stay and become a part of it?
Ray: I was searching for a place to put some of my mainstream writing, and ran across this site back in 2005. I wrote my first Erotic story for this site. It was called ‘Glory Hole Madness Morning’. Actually the story itself did ok and got me my first ticket, and made me a fan club member. At first, I did not take my erotic writing serious. Not like my mainstream writing. Then I wrote another story and it bombed. I was told it was bad, and that I couldn’t even write, by someone. That pissed me off, that is when I decided to take it more serious.
Question: We have noticed that you have posted a picture on your profile, is it really you? How does it feel that people may look at your picture and even fantasize about you after reading your story?
Ray: I can say that it is a collage of many pictures, I am in there as well as Carlos. Carlos would not let me post a complete nude of him or I. so I had to do it in a round about way. Therefore, in Photo Shop I made the photo I have. I am the one standing sideways. I have always liked that photo, those were some happy days, and I was working in a cheap motel.
Question: What is your favorite part of your body? Why?
Ray: I would have to say it is my ass, If I where looking at my ass, I would want to fuck it. Yes, yes I get, fucked. Next to that, I like my smile.
Question: If you could change one thing about yourself what would it be and why?
Ray: I would like to be less sensitive, I get my feelings hurt easy, I have learned not to show that to the world being in business. If I could be less Sensitive things would have been less hard in life.
Question: Boxers v Briefs? / Panties v Thong?
Ray: Boxers are my choice in underwear; I like my boys to have some breathing space. I will put on some tight briefs if I am in the mood to be sexual. Then they only have to be on for a little while, they usually come off quick.
Question: What’s the question you’ve always wanted to be asked, but have never been asked?
Ray: Is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? LOL
Question: What do you like the most about writing erotic stories?
Ray: I can express some of the things I have explored sexually, I can even relive some good sex, in some of the stories I write. Before I met Carlos, I was a confirmed male slut. I loved to sleep with many different men. I was a real party.
Question: How long have you been writing now? How did it all get started and what made you write your first story?
Ray: I guess I have been writing mainstream all my life, every since I could remember. With Erotic writing, I have only been writing it for two years. I did keep a Journal of my sexual conquests, which is where my story ‘Journal of a cock lover’. came from. Its fiction based on actual events. ‘Glory Days’. also based on my early life; I was a “Mormon Missionary” My very first story was a murder mystery I got several awards for that story in high school. I have since lost the manuscript. I want to set down some day and recreate it. That is a little hard to do. I was younger then. It would not be the same.
Question: What categories are most of your stories in? Is there a particular reason for this catagory? What kind would you never write?
Ray: on this site I write mostly gay stories, a lot of my stories fall in the gay dramatic category. Like ‘Dark Cruising’., this story is an adaption from a series of Mainstream novels I am writing. It has been a hard story to write, because it is an adaption. It is a murder suspense thriller. I have had to add the sex, and change the story because of first rights to the mainstream work. Of course, I am not at liberty to tell the title of the main work. In addition, the violence in the main work has had to be, rewritten. Because of Arts, rules and I respect his rules. There are several plot twists; I am focusing on the love and sex between Rob and Wade, in the erotic work, and less of the suspense from the main work. They have to be two different stories or I risk never having the main work published.
Question: Which story is your personal favorite, the one you enjoyed writing the most, and/or the one holds the best memories or feelings for you?
Ray: I Love ‘The Adventures of Andy’. he is everything I wanted to be at that age. He is carefree with sex and himself. Yet he is going to college and making away. I love his openness, and his ability to be himself.
Question: Have you ever gotten so turned on while writing that you had to stop to masturbate? What story was it?
Ray: Yes with the most recent story ‘Memories of a Pup Tent’. I served a mission for the church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. When I came home I got married, joined the military for 3 years, for the college benefits. Both our children where born during that time. While serving I met a man he was in the army, we had a torrid affair for six months, our wives were friends. When he got ready to leave, and be transferred. He told me he never wanted to hear from me again, it was a hard time. I was pretty much in love with him. I drew on those memories of that time to write pup tent. The first part of the story is pretty much a true account. The second part is fantasy I have never seen nor heard from him since. While I was writing the story, Carver was plowing Chase’s ass with his cock. I had memories of my soldier fucking me the same way. I had to pull my Cock out and jack off. I got so heated I had to stop and come back later to finish that paragraph.
Question: Do you write from fantasy or true stories or a combination of both? Please explain or give an example.
Ray: I write from both aspects. Take my stories that deal with Glory holes, I have been in glory holes, bookstores; I have sucked cock through holes and had my ass slammed through a hole. For the last nineteen years, I have been out and open. I was divorced shortly after my son was born, and leaving the military. My wife caught me in a hotel with a staff sergeant. She had followed me, I guess I under estimated her. It was for the best in the end.
Question: Are the characters in your story based on real people, did you make them up, or are they a combination of both?
Ray: Hmmm, some of them our based on people I have know, usually the main players, the other ones are, made up.
Question: What parts of "Yourself" do you put into your characters?
Ray: I am a little like Rob and Wade both of them from ‘Dark Cruising’. My business persona my strength is all Rob, My softer side is wade. I can be hard as steal, yet meek as a lamb.
Question: If there was one trait you could take from one of your characters in your stories, and put it in place in your real life, what would it be and why?
Ray: Robs, Assuredness I am not always assured, which is perhaps why I have an addictive personality.
Question: How long does it take for you to write a complete story? How does the process go?
Ray: It depends on what I am writing about, how much plot development there is, how many players in the story, all of that is all thought out before I ever put pen to paper. I have spent 3 to 4 weeks on a short story. There are times I can pump a story out in a day. First, I write about their world, and then I find out how many players. Then I write about each Character. Therefore, I know who the person is, before I ever start to put it all together. I bought a program that helps to keep everything organized my notes my research, my worlds and my characters all together. It is, called, new novelist a wonderful program. I used to have a paper trail all over my desk, before I got this program. Sometimes an Idea comes to me when I am not next to a computer, so I keep a recorder with me. I work an idea to death. I know I drive Carlos crazy in the development process of any story I am writing.
Question: How do you come up with your story titles?
Ray: Sometimes that is the last thing to do is name the story. I have a working title. However, many times I do not even know the title until I am done.
Question: What is the hardest part of writing a story?
Ray: Keeping all your notes and research together, being able to pull it up if you are stuck. When you are actually writing the story, no one wants to look like a fool on a time line, or a location, those are important details in a story.
Question: Have you ever done research for a part of a story you did not have any knowledge about or maybe for a sex scene?
Ray: I love the internet, I can find out about anything, or anywhere with a few key strokes. It used to be, when you where writing you had to spend countless hours in the library. I do not have to leave my computer now. That makes writing easier from the research standpoint.
Question: If a movie was ever made of one of your stories, which story would you want it to be, and who would play the lead characters? Would you be willing to play one of the characters?
Ray: I would like to see ‘Dark Cruising’. made into a movie, or perhaps ‘Glory Days’.. I would like Brad Pitt, to play Rob, And Ashton Kutcher to play Wade. I would play Victor if I could; He is kind of a sinister persona, and a mystery.
Question: Dream date. If you had the chance to have a date with any person (actor, actress or well-known person) who would it be? How would it start? How would it end? How would they rate you in bed?
Ray: Brad Pitt, I just love his Body. Brad would pick me up in his limo at my house while attending the Sundance Film festival. We would go to a nice restaurant, Share a good meal together. Then back in the limo. I would slide across the seat, take his handsome face in my hand, and kiss him, better then that he would kiss me back. Of course, my hands would wander to his zipper. I would open his shirt I would start sucking on his nipples and travel down until I engulfed his beautiful cock. He would give me an impressive load of cum I would drink every drop. I would then want him to fuck my ass until I came. Then we would end up in his hotel, and make love, lust for the whole night. Then I would get up and dress and head home to Carlos.
Question: Romantic escape. If you had a chance to take your significant other anywhere? Where would it be? And how would you make it a break that they would never forget?
Ray: We have plans to take a gay cruise, I intend to make love to him everyday, and every night until the cruise ends, we would spend every hour in the cabin as fuck food, I would just eat his cock, and have him fuck me all the time.
Question: what best defines your life? Fancy restaurant with champagne and roses or cuddles up on the sofa with a video and bottle of wine? something else?
Ray: I like to go out and mingle, Carlos is a stay at home kind of guy, we do have a happy medium.
Question: Do you have any secret stories you don’t want to publish for the public? Do you publish your stories on other sites besides EroticStories.com and if so, why? Have you ever been published on paper?
Ray: I do not have any secret stories, that I would not share with everyone, good God I have talked about glory hole sex in detail. I don’t have anything to be ashamed of. I have never forced sex with another; I am not in to heavy bondage or anything of an illegal nature.
Question: When you receive negative comments do you just ignore them, build from them, or let it put a negative image over the story itself, and let it hinder your writing?
Ray: Not everything I write is going to be, liked by everyone. That would be presumptuous of me, and arrogant to think that. As I said earlier, some people come to look for a specific story and a specific need to be, met. My story may not ring that person’s bell. I am not going to fall to pieces and never write again. I will go on and write another story, hoping it will be the best I ever wrote.
Question: Do you also enjoy reading erotic stories? Which categories do you enjoy the most? Do you like true stories or fantasies?
Ray: I do read erotica both straight and Gay, I get ideas on other peoples styles that will enhance my own writing. I will comment on every story I read. I will score it, and then I will tell the person why I scored it the way I did, I do it in a constructive way. There is no need to be rude to someone, because a story did not send you over the edge to the best self-orgasmic release. I like true stories as well as fantasies, a well-written story is what I like.
Question: Do you vote on other author's stories? How do you decide what score to give when you do?
Ray: I look at content, and structure in a story I wont read a story that is one jumbled mess, if the structure is good and spilt in to paragraphs then I will read it. I do not want to spend an hour trying to figure out what they are trying to say. On those stories, I will usually not score it, but I will send them a comment with a suggestion on how to structure their story to a more readable form. I have helped a few people make their story better, all done in private of course. Then they put it in for an update, and to their surprise, the story starts to score better. That is worth it to me to help someone improve.
Question: Do you send other author’s comments or feedback on their stories?
Ray: Yes, I do if I like the story I will tell them, I also as stated will give suggestion on how the story could be better.
Question: Do you have a favorite author on ES? What makes them your favorite?
Ray: I like Hungry4BigD I think that is his screen name. I always try to read his stories when he post’s. He puts a good story together, most of the time; I only need to vote on his. There is not much suggestion needed for him to improve. Corey I also like his writings the more I read of his the more he is becoming a favorite. However, as favorites go there is really only one at this time; Hungry4BigD. That does not mean I cannot add more favorites to my list. One of the Cross over authors that I have added recently is Shuggie2, he writes both Straight and Gay stories. I have read a few of his stories and enjoyed what I have read.
Question: Collaboration? Would you like to write with another author on this site? If so Who? And what would the story be about?
Ray: Hmmm, I would not mind writing a bisexual story with Pleasure Kitten I do like her style. I also would not mind collaborating with anyone interested.
Question: When you read a story do you: A. Touch yourself and come around the same time one of the characters do? B. Touch yourself but wait for the end to come? C. Touch yourself but wait until after you finish the story to come, such as after going to bed? D. Not touch yourself until you are finished and then continue thinking about the story and come? E. Any other variation you may do? (Please tell us what it is)
Ray: It could be a combination of all, I do recover quickly sometimes I can cum three or four times a day. It also has to do with the story I am writing if it is a story based on actual events, I am more prone to cum several times while bringing the memories back. Take for instance ‘Glory Days’. The story it’s self is fiction based on actual events. I was on a mission, I did meet a man in fact he was my first sexual experience. Not only did I feel the emotion of the sex, I also put a lot of my pain in to that story.
Question: Do you enjoy the visual side of erotica, as in porn movies or pictures? If so, do you have any favorites?
Ray: I am not to much in to the visual porn of movies, I am a reader a good story does more for me then watching someone fuck someone on film. When I was in California years ago, I had an opportunity to do a gay porn movie, I declined to be on camera, but I did enjoy the experience of being a fluffer, which is someone that keeps the cock hard for the scene. I was a professional fluffer for six films during the early nineties.
Question: Do you remember the first pornography you ever saw? Tell us about it?
Ray: Do you remember hustler magazine, my older brother kept several of those magazines under his mattress I found his stash. One photo set had two guys and girl in it. One of the guys was a transvestite a chick with a dick it was the first time I ever saw a man with his mouth close to a cock. My one friend had a copy of a copy of a video called the Bigger the Better, that was with Rick Donovan. I saw that after I was divorced and starting out my life of a gay man. I was twenty two then.
Question: Have you ever participated in erotic photography? If so, please tell us about it. If not, would you rather be the photographed or the photographer? Would you participate in video?
Ray: My partner and I have been, asked to do porn together; Carlos is not much in to porn either. I prefer having sex opposed to watching sex, I don’t know if I want to be in porn or not. It is somewhat exciting to think about lots of people watching you get off… I don’t know….perhaps if Carlos was game.
Question: What do you wear to bed? Do you dress for sex? Or go to bed au natural?
Ray: I sometimes will put on something that shows my ass, and my cock and balls, something tight if I want to entice Carlos, It really does not take much enticing he is a horny Latino. I have a pair of long underwear, they are red Carlos really likes those; they have the little flap in the back. Sometimes I pretend to sleep and push my ass in to him of course I am sleeping. He sleeps Natural all the time, so I push my ass into his cock…. of course, he only needs to open the flap If you get my drift.
Question: Do your sex life and writing have any correlation with each other??
Ray: I am a sexual person, I have to it is a need for me anyway a driving force to have sex as often as life and time permits, I get bitchy if I do not have sex at least every two days. Sometimes it is near impossible for us to hook up everyday, which I would prefer. Carlos and I are in a semi open relationship, I know some people do not agree with that. However, life is too short not to have fun when you can. We have some ground rules. I do not, get fucked by anyone else. I however can suck as much cock as I can handle. I don’t think Carlos plays around, without me around. We have attended some parties together he likes to see me pleasure other men with my mouth while he fucks my ass. Whatever we do, we do it safe and we test for HIV regularly, so far we are clean. So yes, my sexual life does correlate with my writing.
Question: is there anything that you have written about in a story that you would love to try in real life? If so what? And why?
Ray: I wrote about a glory hole box with a nice easy chair in side, I have actually built a model of it scale of course. I have been thinking about building the actual box and hosting a party and inviting as many men to come over and play in the holes. I am an Oral person, there is nothing I like better then sucking cock. Nothing can make me cum harder then a cock in my mouth. You will find the story that I mention the box in ‘The Adventures Of Andy’.”
Question: How would you rate your willingness to try new things in bed?
Ray: I am very willing to try most anything in bed. At least once, just for the experience. I am willing to try new things so I guess I rate myself ten.
Question: What’s the kinkiest thing you have done in your life?
Ray: I was in Minneapolis this was 1997, I had moved to Fargo (North Dakota) to live with a man I had met on the internet. It did not work out. I missed my children too much that I came back to Utah. Kelly and I had gone to the big city for the weekend to an orgy. Anyway, the kinkiest thing I did was let a guy pour Champagne in my ass. Boy did I get drunk. I am only going to let you imagine what the guy did with the champagne. I would not recommend you try this, I found out after that, I could have gotten sick.
Question: What wouldn't you consider doing (bearing in mind site rules,) where would you draw the line at? What wouldn't you entertain at all?
Ray: Anything that is fun for all the participants, nothing worse than having sex with someone, that is not up to it or the activity that is being, done There are only four things sexually or I will not consider. One: nobody is taking a dump on me. Two: I am not into piss; do not even think about it if you want your cock still attached. Three: Deep hard pain, I am a pleasure person. I do not mind some mild roughness that is cool, but I am not having my balls tied in knots. Four: Or sex with non-humans. Those things I mentioned are ok, for those who participate I am not a judge. It is just not for me.
Question: Do you put you partner’s preferences first? Your own? or a combination of both? How far would you go to please your partner sexually?
Ray: I am willing to go pretty far to please my partner, Yes I do put my partner’s preferences first, I am a pleaser. that is what pleases me. To see my partner pleased
Question: Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfill?
Ray: Everyone has those I think I would like to be in a room full of hot men, and have them all cum on me, I love cum its texture the smell of it, the taste of it. I do not feel whatever consenting adults do is wrong.
Question: Do you feel your sex life has improved with age? If so, how? and is there still room for improvement?
Ray: Sometimes I feel that way, and other times I don’t. It depends on how I am feeling that particular day. I think sex now is better because you know what pleases you, and you have learned what pleases your partner, or partners. I guess you have learned skills in pleasure.
Question: Do you have any funny stories or has anything strange happened during sex that you would like to share with your readers.
Ray: A few years back we were trying out a new sling, we thought we had it anchored well in the rafters, it turned out that particular rafter was soft. When we tried out the sling, I was in the sling in all my leather chaps with the butt end cut out. Carlos was really giving it to me hard; I was really getting into his pounding when the Fucking thing broke. I got a herniated disc, it was not funny then but it is now. There I was on the floor trapped in this thing with my legs up in the air. Not knowing exactly what happened, Carlos also got his shoulder dislocated when I kicked him. He was cussing in Spanish, I thought he was mad at me, and we got in an argument. Before going to the hospital neither, one of us got off that night.
Question: What do you think about solo sex?
Ray: If there is no one around and the urge comes, hell yes I bought one of those Flesh lights, and I have a collection of dildos. Fuck yes I am going to take care of the issue myself. While on the subject of the Flesh light, It is better then a reach around when you are getting fucked guys, It would not work well for a woman, but is fucking awesome to have your ass being plowed, and your cock in one of those.
Question: Threesome, foursome or more, does the whole group thing turn you on or off? Would you share a bed with more than one? If so in what circumstances would it happen?
Ray: We have done the group scene, I am an avid cocksucker, so I like to get with a group of guys and satisfy them all if I can.
Question: What are your favourite; and least favourite positions?
Ray: Sexually I am pretty much a bottom, I love to get fucked, I really like it from behind with my head down in the pillow, or my hair being pulled a bit not where it would pull it out, even a slap on my ass is hot. In my professional life I am in control, in the bedroom I am the submissive, I love submitting my ass, my mouth to my partner. That does not mean he disrespects me. That does not mean that I do not desire him to suck me off sometimes, and at times I can be the Top on rare occasions. With Carlos he is 95 percent top and I am 95 percent bottom, there is that 5 percent, that I fuck his ass.
Question: Anal sex, Turn on or turn off?
Ray: I love anal sex, I Love a stiff cock up inside me, I love to cum when I am being fucked there is no other feeling like it, it is even better when your partner comes with you.
Question: Fetishes. Is there a particular fetish that inspires you? Something you would love to try? Something that you would avoid at all costs?
Ray: I love leather, the smell of it, I am into cock rings, light bondage, there is nothing better then being tied up, and you can’t touch yourself, and you are at the mercy of your lover. I would not do that with everyone, I trust Carlos to stop when I say.
Question: Do you believe in one night stands?
Ray: I have had plenty of one night stands in my time, which used to be my preference. Getting in and getting out. Getting each other off and moving on. I was not a person that liked commitment. one nights where a good thing. I never wanted to fall in love. Love is better all the way around at least that is what I have found out, it seems the sex is even better when you have feeling for the person you are with.
Question: What makes you feel sexy? What would you do to look sexier for your partner?
Ray: I am standing here watching Carlos placing a chicken in the oven, just watching him right now is sexy for me, in turn Carlos makes me feel sexy, even thou I am ageing, he never fails to tell me how handsome I am. I try to keep up my body. Carlos and I are the same age. He is only a year younger then me. Therefore, we are intending to age together. He tells me I am like a fine bottle of wine; I only get better as time passes. He is still very handsome too. At least to me he always will be, as he was the first time I saw him.
Question: What makes someone sexy to you?
Ray: I used to be all about the outer appearance, even when I married my Ex-Wife I had to have the prettiest woman. It was the same with men. Something has changed in me; I look more to the inside of a person more now. Carlos and I are not twenty years old or even thirty, we are in our early forties. Ten years ago, I would not have dated Carlos if he had been forty, but now I intend to be with him into my 80’s. And beyond if we are lucky.
Question Dressed or undressed? What inspires you the most? Revealing with the promise of something? Or naked with nothing left to the imagination?
Ray: I always like to see a person in their clothes first, the awe of waiting to see what is under the covering is worth waiting to see.
Question: What is a major turn on for you during sex?
Ray: Kissing, sex is not sex without kissing; its just lust then, the build up to the actual act is the turn on for me.
Question: What is a major turn off for you during sex?
Ray: I have a hard time when my nipples are played with, if it is done before I am aroused with kissing, after I am aroused then you can do what ever you want with my nipples, just do not start out with playing with my nipples, or I am completely uninterested.
Question: Sex-talk. Do you like or dislike talking during sex?
Ray: I love when Carlos starts talking in Spanish when he is fucking me, even though I do not understand every word, it makes my cock hard knowing he is having a good time.
Question: In bed or on the kitchen table?
Ray: HMMM if we only had sex in bed that would be so boring, SO I would say the floor, the stairs, the shower, the rocking chair, a sling if it is anchored right…LOL…Outside if you don’t get caught.
Question: Have you ever had sex in a public place? Where is the most interesting place you have had sex? Would you like to try sex in public?
Ray: I used to like the glory holes, tea rooms, book stores, even the back rooms of the gay bars, the bathes those are gone now. For gays, public sex is becoming, outdated. With the invention of the internet, cruising public places has slowed to a crawl. The reason we did all that, we where hidden members of society. Hell, you can find a private gay orgy almost any day listed on Craig’s list; (http: //www.craigslist.org/about/sites.html) you can even hook up for sex on the internet. Public sex was very exciting; I do not know if it is worth the risk anymore, I have my memories to write about the good old days.
Question: What is your favourite or most memorable moment in bed?
Ray: It was back in 1989, I was working in a hospital, I worked with this one guy for several months, I had no Idea he was gay, I was down at the gay park cruising for sex, and he drove up next to me in his convertible, with his partner. We ended back at their place, and the two of us took turns sucking his partner’s cock, which by the way was huge. At one point, we both were laying on the bed on either side of him. I was licking and sucking on one side of his cock, and he was doing the same on the other side. Then we started tongue kissing with his cock between us, next thing we know he shoots his cum while we were kissing and it dribbled down in to both our mouths, it was hot, so where the two of them, we had manage trios for several months, until they moved away.
Question: Is there anybody on this site, who you would like to see interviewed? Why?
Ray: I would like to see Hungry4BigD Interviewed, I think he is a great writer and his stories always do very well, he has been on the site since 2003 he is on the top 100 list. He has twenty stories written besides I would like to see what makes him tick. I really like his stories.
Question: Do you notice any differences between the "younger" writers on here, and between the "older writers" of this site?
Ray: A good story is a good story no matter how old the writer is, if they are young they tend to use a little more slang then I do. Which is ok I think as we get older we are more to detail then we are when we are younger, But if we did not have the young raw writers then writing would die…So youth is a good thing. It keeps the wheels turning.
Question: what is more important to you? A good story with a little sex? a story full of sex with almost no story? Or a mixture of both?
Ray: I am a plot man I like to read a story that has good sex and good plot to it. Look at my writing I am not usually one that just throws a story filled with sex out without some buildup…But there is some fun with a story that is written, for the soul purpose of getting someone off….Quick….I say those people that write those stories keep writing.
Question: What Catagory of stories do you mostly read? Why? Is there a catagory of story that you would like to see more of on this site?
Ray: I tend to read in the gay or bisexual categories, but lately I have been reading some of the stra8 writers, as a writer it helps me.
Question: Pet hates, is there any particular traits that annoy you when reading stories? What do you enjoy about other stories? is there any way that writers can improve their stories on this site?
Ray: I cannot read a story that is one big clump of words, without paragraphs, to be honest I do not waste my time with those stories, they are too hard to follow. I can over look punctuation and Grammar; I am not 100 perfect at that myself... In my mainstream writing, I hire Proofreaders that find many of mistakes. I have not paid someone to do that for my erotic writing. I have dyslexia so I have to read over what I have written several times. I still have a problem with words that sound alike. Like to, too, two. They slip by me sometimes, or there and their.
Question: Do you have any advice or tips on writing that you wish to share with any budding authors?
Ray: Be comfortable when you write do not, force the story let it flow, it does not hurt to get up and walk away, and we are not on a time schedule, Art does not have a whip making us pump them out quickly. Take your time when you write, think about what you want to say, and then find what works best for you to transfer that Idea in your head to paper. The basic draft of any story I write starts out the old way Pen and paper.
Question: You have published 19 stories with an average rating of 8.81, how does it feel to know that your readers rate you so highly?
Ray: It makes me feel good, my scores would have been perhaps higher then 8.81 if I had paid close attention to detail with some of my earlier stories. As I said before I did not take my erotic writing serious until the last few months. It seems with each story I write and post, each time I think I get better. I thank all the readers that have kept my score up where it is. This year I intend to continue to wow some of you, I have about thirty outlines of future stories. SO stay tuned I am really just getting started.
Question: Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...
With humble heart, I tip my hat to you the readers. I thank all of you for reading. It really is nice to have you in my corner; I don’t make money off of writing these stories. These stories I do for the pure pleasure of it, and knowing that I have brought pleasure to someone with my words means a lot. So once again thank you, please keep reading and I will keep writing… Hugs and kisses to you all. Without you, the readers, there would be no need to write. Best Wishes, Ray (indulger2005)
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