Welcome for this fourth interview with one of our authors. This time we didn’t pick a very popular author. Well, our latest victim is popular, but not really as an author. Most people will know her for keeping the message board alive and kicking. So if you don’t know who we are talking about, read the interview and find out. And if you still don’t know who our victim is after you have read the interview: shame on you! If you feel ashamed now, feel free to check our message board as soon as possible.
The interview with PleasureKitten:
Question: First tell us something thing about yourself, like name, age, and some other things we would like to know about you...Let’s call it a short bio.
Name: PK aka PleasureKitten :)
I'm 26, a curvy 5 foot, shoulder length brown hair with dark blonde highlights, dark brown puppy dog eyes, and a cute Texan accent on top of a sexy voice (or so I have been told.) Born and raised in
Question: Why do you have only 2 stories up on the site? Rumours are that you had plenty of more stories in the past. A revival maybe? A comeback?
Actually I have only ever had 2 stories posted under this name. I do have several stories that are almost finished at the moment that I am hoping to post very soon. I'm a slow writer it seems and it can sometimes take me years to actually finish a story, of course that doesn't count all the unfinished stories on disks.
I do have a couple more stories posted under another name, LexieGirl. I have decided to switch them to the PK name and have contacted Art about how to do it. So if you have read any of Lexie Girl's stories and want to keep updated when new ones are posted, you will want to go and favourite PleasureKitten now, as 'her' stories will be listed there now.
I have kept LexieGirl separate from PK, for personal reasons, but feel that it is time they are merged and people see that PK has written some decent stories and hope to post even better ones in the future..
Question: How did you end up as a moderator on the message board?
Asked. :) Actually I am only moderator of the Story and Review Board so I have no real power over the board. Jake was the moderator of that board before me, but he opted to pass it on after life and other things got in the way of doing it.
Question: What’s the main reason why you write erotic stories?
Because I can. He He. ;) I just enjoy putting words on to paper to form pictures in people's minds. Those words just happen to be erotic in nature. I also enjoy people's reactions to them. It's always a good feeling when someone lets you know that they liked the story.
Question: How did it all get started and what made you write your first story?
A long time ago, I was in a long distance relationship and during a letter to him I got a little personal telling him what I wanted. That started it all. After that letter there were other letters and then when the relationship was over I moved on to stories.
Question: Do you write only fantasy or also true stories?
Mostly fantasies with a little reality added in here and there. My real life isn't as exciting as my stories. :(
Question: Which ones do you prefer to write?
Fantasies with a little reality added in here and there. I'm not sure I could write a full account of something that actually happened. I think that would take away from the real event or the guy involved might not appreciate having what he did in writing for the world to read about it.
Question: Do you also enjoy reading erotic stories?
I do. I don't read them as often as I would like, but occasionally I'll find myself in a mood to read them.
Question: Which ones do you prefer to read, true or fantasy?
Honestly, the ones that start with the words "this is a true story" or "this really happened" tend to be stories I avoid reading. They tend to sound like the most far fetched stories. I don't need to know if the story is true or fantasy, it just has to be something that keeps my attention and sounds realistic.
Question: Which genre does please you the most?
Hmm, I guess that depends on my mood. An easier question to answer would be what I don't like, which is pretty much what Art doesn't allow on the site, along with stories involving a lot of pain or golden showers. Stories about adultery have to be more than her hubby was 4in and the guy she ends up sleeping with was 10. Even though a lot of my stories are more of the acts themselves, the stories I enjoy reading the most (unless I want a quick fix) are the stories that have a story or point to them.
Question: How long have you been writing now?
I dabbled in writing when I was a child, so I'm not sure when I actually started writing. I started writing erotica probably around 6 years ago.
Question: Are all your stories posted on this site or do you have some secret stories you don’t want to publish for the public?
All finished stories are posted on the site. I have a few stories that need to go through a little more editing before being posted, but I don't have any hidden away from here, yet.
Question: How long does it take for you to write a complete story? How does the process go?
Forever, which would explain why I have so few stories actually posted? Actually in the recent months I completed a story I started over a year ago, as well as wrote a few stories in weeks, a first for me. I usually start a story and get going good on it then life gets in the way and it gets put on the back burner. Before I can go back to it another story idea comes to me and I work on that one. I really don't know if I will ever get all of the unfinished stories finished. My main goal right now is to try to finish the more recent stories that I have started.
Question: What is the hardest part of writing a story?
Finishing it. ;) Plus editing it, giving it a description and title. Writing tends to be the easiest part for me.
Question: How do you come up with your story titles?
A stroke of luck? Sometimes a thought sticks out and I use it. Sometimes I just pull something out of the air that fits. Sometimes I have a story sitting in files waiting for a title so it can be posted, like I have know.
Question: The characters in your story are the based on true people if it’s a fantasy story?
Both. I tend to use bits of people around me when making a character. The main female character always has some part of me in them. It may not always be a part that the average person sees, but they tend to be like me. The male characters tend to be mostly parts of people I know, or what I would want in a guy. I try to make them different, so it isn't like the same boring characters every time. There are a few cases where the main guys were solely based off one particular guy.
In the story 'The Birthday Present' the main character was actually based off a friend of mine (that I hadn't slept with at the time), and that story was a birthday present to him.
In another story, posted under LexieGirl, the guy was based of an online friend of mine, and he had asked me to write a story for him. I added in things that I knew he liked to personalize it.
Question: Do you have a favourite author on ES and if so, why?
I have met many great authors from being a part of the Message Board. And many of them have become some of my favourites. I won't name them because I know I'd leave someone out, but they are people whose stories I enjoy reading and think they have a great talent when it comes to writing. I hope that one day I'm as good as they are.
Question: Do you also publish your stories on other sites and if so, why?
As of right now my stories are only on ES. I have considered posting at Lit since I have an online friend that is big into that site, but haven't yet.
Question: What do you like the most and the least about writing erotic stories?
What I like most:
Seeing my thoughts in writing, seeing the story form on paper. People's responses to my stories. Sharing them with my online friends.
What I like least:
Getting stuck while writing a story and not being able to finish it. Having to come up with a description and title. Spending forever editing a story, then still finding mistakes.
Question: What genre don’t you like at all? And what kind would you never write?
I don't think I will ever be able to write m/m stories, since I have no experience with that, and I'm not a guy. I tend to stick with subject I like and have a little knowledge about. I'll probably never write any serious bondage stories. Other than that, I really don't know. I guess it depends on what ideas come to me.
Question: Have you ever done research for a part of a story you didn’t have any knowledge about?
Kind of, I have an online friend that I tease about having had sex everywhere. If I have a question about if something would work or not I will ask him if he has done it and what his thoughts were on it. He has even once, tried something out after I asked him if he had done it and reported back to me how it worked out.
Question: Have you learned anything you would like to share since you started writing erotic stories?
I think the key to writing erotica is writing for yourself first. Forget the reads, forget the votes, and write what you like. To me there is no point writing a story for someone or an audience if you are not happy or agree with the final product. It is also important to remember that not every person is going to like your story. Everyone has likes and dislikes and you can't please them all.
Writing also helps you explore your thoughts and things you may or may not like. It also gives you a chance to live out something that you may never get a chance to do in your real life.
Question: Which of your stories is your personal favourite, or one you enjoyed writing the most, or which one holds the best memories or feelings for you?
I think my favourites at the moment are two stories that are not posted yet. One of them started off as a tease to an online friend and became a lot more than that. It actually ended up being two/three stories, with thoughts of more. This one needs another editing, and I hope to come up with a name for it soon.
The other, started with a night out at the club and a really good, hot, live band. When I got home later that story was there in my mind, waiting to get out. It is one that I actually wrote in weeks.
It's become a series of stories, with two parts finished and a third in the works. I am waiting until I finish the 3rd part before posting it because I know my track record with stories and would hate to leave people waiting forever to find out what happens. I like to refer to it as the Sara Series, and this is one character that is probably least like me, or at least like the me everyone sees everyday. Sara is that person that we all wish we could be sometime or other. The girl that goes out and gets what she wants when she wants it.
Of the stories currently posted, I think that 'A Night of Trust', posted under the LexieGirl name would be a favourite. It was a chance for me to explore a few things I'm not sure I'd ever be able to do in real life.
Question: When you receive comments, obviously you would enjoy the positive ones, but if you receive negative ones, do you just ignore them, build from them, or let it put a negative image over the story itself, and let it hinder your writing?
It depends on what the negative feed back is. I know that not everyone is going to like my stories, it just isn't possible, even if we'd like to think they do. I'm one that doesn't assume a 1 or low vote is from a fellow writer trying to vote everyone else down, especially since I don't see any reason to target me. If I get a 1 or low vote it is probably from a person that just didn't like my story.
I've never really had any harsh feedback, but if I get something I take it for what it is, someone else's opinion. And I don't have to agree with them. For me the main point is for me to be happy with the story, not others. I'm also lucky to have some great online friends that keep me in check and don't let me get down when I get negative feedback.
I'll keep writing as long as the thoughts and ideas keep coming to me. :)
Question: If there was one trait you could take out of one of your stories, and put it in place in your real life, what would it be and why?
Hmm, that I'd get as much sex as they do. ;) Actually I wouldn't mind taking a bit of Sara. Not all of her, mind you, but just enough that would make me less shy when it comes to men.
Question: What is the impact of having fans had on your writing and your everyday life?
I've become pretty good friends with several fans along the way. It's always nice to make new friends. Plus having people that want you to write more helps you to make more of an effort (when time allows) to write more.
Question: Are you anything like your characters you write in real life?
Since they all have bits and pieces of me then yes there are some of them in me. Their feelings and thoughts often closely mirror my own.
Question: Is your real sex life as exciting as your stories?
GOD I WISH! No, unfortunately my sex life is pretty non existent right now. :(
Question: We already know you enjoy erotic stories, but do you also enjoy the visual side of erotica, as in porn movies? If so, any favourites?
I'm picky when it comes to pictures. I have to be in a certain mood to really enjoy them. If I'm not, I see and notice little stupid things about pictures. Some porn is okay, I'd rather there is a story line and sex involved than seeing how many positions they can do in a short period of time.
Question: Is there anybody on this site, who you would like to see interviewed? And why?
There are several... Jake, Comshaw, Stardog Champion just to name a few. There are many wonderful authors on this site that I'd love to see interviewed.
Question: What’s the kinkiest thing you have done in your life so far?
Umm, I'd have to say it was the time I had sex at a cemetery. It was one of those country ones out in the middle of no where. We didn't get out of the car, so it wasn't like we were doing it on graves. It was weird though, because the whole time I just have this feeling of being watched.
Question: Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfil?
Of course I do. :) Not sure I'll ever get to do them though. One thing I'd like to do is have sex with two guys at once. Another thing, that seems to be a big fantasy of mine right now, is sex with an online friend of mine.
Question: Have you ever done erotic photography? If not, would you like to be photographed or not?
No, I'm not sure I'd be able to do it. I guess it depended on the situation.
Question: Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview?
Now is your chance...
Are ya bored yet? ;) I'm very thankful to everyone that has read and voted for my stories. Please keep an eye out for the new ones. I can promise you they are much better than what I have posted currently. My writing has improved since the first ones I have posted on the site.
Keep reading and umm, well what ever it is you do when you read. ;)
I love getting feedback and mail, so write me if you wish. :) You can PM me on the site or find me on the message board. The email address listed on my profile probably isn't a good way to go as I forget to check it.
Question: Do you notice any differences between the "younger" writers on here, and between the "older writers" of this site?
Are we talking about younger/older as in age wise? Or how long they have been on the site?
If we are talking age wise, I'm not sure there is much difference. The older generation may have more stories or more experiences to draw from, but again there are some younger writers that have a great variety of stories.
If we are talking about how long they have been on the site? I think that a lot of the older writers are less (at least many of them) worried about the one votes, it seems they generally write for themselves before others.
Question: Are you good in bed?
I'd like to think so! ;) I have never had any complaints so I'm going to assume that I am. I think sex should be fun, and in most cases it has been, so hopefully the guys agree with me and liked it too.
Question: Tell us something about your first time. Was it special or just a quickie in the backseat of his car?
My first time sucked. :( It was just a really bad experience where I cried in front of him afterward. We were both inexperienced and had no idea what we were doing.
Question: What is your frequency of sex? In other words, how many times a week or month do you give the best of yourself in bed?
Not as much as I would like. It depends on what is going on at the time. Lately it's averaged out to around once a month. Or I have several times that happen then have a couple (or many more) months in between. :(
Question: What is your favourite position?
It's hard to have a favourite because I think different once work for different situations. It depends on the guy, the mood and the situation.
Question: Do you believe in one night stands?
I won't say I have never had one, but I prefer not to. Sex for sex's sake just isn't that good to me. Plus I think it takes several times with a person to really be relaxed and to completely enjoy it.
Question: What is a major turn on for you during sex?
A good kisser! A guy that doesn't skip from the neck to between the legs with little thought of anything in-between. A big turn on is a guy that takes his time and teases and enjoys me.
Question: Sextalk. Do you like or dislike talking during sex?
Like it? I love it. I'm a big fan of phone sex so I think that carries over to real sex.
Question: What is a major turn off for you during sex?
A guy that can't kiss or slobbers when he kisses. A guy that doesn't pay attention to what is or isn't working for me. A guy that is out to just get his and doesn't care if I get mine or not.
Question: What do you think about solo sex?
As in masturbation? I have no problem with it at all. A girl's got to do what a girl's got to do. Why wait for a guy to help you when you can help yourself. I also think that it is important to know your body and know what feels good to you. If you know what feels good, then you can show him.
Question: In bed or on the kitchen table?
Both? Okay so I haven't gotten it on a kitchen table yet so that's something I'd like to try sometime or another. :)
Question: You biggest mistake or shameful moment in bed?
First guy I slept with was a mistake. I wish I would have waited for another guy. Other than that there really isn't any. I try not to regret any of the things I have done since they have all taught me something about guys or myself.
Well, I hope you enjoyed this interview and comments are welcome. So the more feedback, the bigger the change that there will be another interview!
If you have any questions you would like me to ask our next victim, let me know and I will fire them at him or her.
Also let PleasureKitten know what you liked of her answers to my questions, and don’t forget to check out her stories!
With kind regards,
Amanda Marais