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Welcome to our fifth Interview on the site. Let me introduce myself a bit. I am ksqt25, and have been an author on this site for almost a year now.

With the sorrowful passing of our dear Amanda, Art has asked me to pick up where she left off, so that this wonderful addition would not die with her. I was very honoured to be offered this, and so I just had to accept.

This month I chose to interview an author who writes under two names, and she may not have very many stories posted, but she is wonderful at what she does. It took some coaxing on my part to convince her to do this, but luckily for all of us, she finally accepted.

I now present you the interview with Mz Tich a.k.a. Mistress Tich:

Question: First tell us something thing about yourself, like name, age, and some other things we would like to know about you...Let’s call it a short bio.

Calling me Tich is fine. I'm 49 and live in Florida, originally from the North. Married with no children. Lived here since I was very young. Most that know Me, knows I really don't like the hot weather, if ever hubby allowed Me to con him we'd be somewhere where it snows! Where there are seasons , four that is instead of the two Fla has , green and brown, lol...

Question: Your profile says you are a housewife and Small Business Owner, do you keep both lives separate? And how easy/difficult is it to keep them separate?

Yes, I am a housewife, happily married for 25 yrs to the same great guy. He's pretty much a workaholic, working for someone and with his own business, which leaves Me with a lot of empty space, lol. I take care of his business from home and started a small business of my own, I'm a bit artistic, I call a doodler, and that led Me to custom hand etching glass. Which I make and sell. After a while his business and home life is pretty much the same, but has been this way so long I wouldn't know the difference.

We also enjoy stockcar racing, not Nascar but on the local level, besides work it one of the constants in our lives. Most people have kids, we had racecars, lol..

Question: Does your spouse know you write, and if so, what does he think?

Yes, he does, and he has read some, he thinks I have talent, but hubbies have to say that don't they? He and I have a lot in common, we share many interests, but this just isn't one of his. But then I think it's a time factor for him.

Question: What’s the main reason why you write erotic stories?

I enjoy spinning a fantasy, something I enjoy myself and hoping the ones reading it does too. I think you should keep trying to better yourself, broaden your horizens. I write under two names, for whatever reason at the time I posted My first non-Femdom story, I thought it should be under a different author name. Sounds kind of crazy now though.

Question: How did it all get started and what made you write your first story?

Well, a friend I met online directed me to the ES site, saying there were awesome stories on there. After reading on the site for 6 months or so, and I corresponded with some authors, one of them suggested I try my hand at it. He said I had a way with words. ;) and here we are!

Question: Do you write only fantasy or also true stories?

Some of my stories are true with a dash of fantasy, others are pure fantasy! Now being married unless I get My Sweetie to do tricks, it has to be fantasy, unless I bring out the good old days, lol. And that could happen!

Question: Which ones do you prefer to write?

I think I enjoy writing the true ones with a splash of fantasy, gives you a chance to relive obviously in most cases a good time and add a few things you wish you had tried, So much for hindsight huh?

Question: Do you also enjoy reading erotic stories?

Yes I do and I always vote! Writing myself I know how it feels when readers just read it and move on.. Sometimes I'm compelled to send feedback. On a few occassions some creative criticism, usually suggestions that other authors have given me. I'm not a professional, just someone attempting to write stories others would enjoy as much as I do. Or just to say 'Kudos' for an excellent story.

Question: Which ones do you prefer to read, true or fantasy?

I try not to limit myself, I like to read a little bit of everything, because it really depends on the stories or the authors. I'm not too much into the lesbian stories, but if there's more to it then sex, then I'll check it out.

Question: Which genre do you enjoy the most?

Mostly in the straight category, but I venture out. <smiling>

Question: How long have you been writing now?

Well, since the beginning of last summer. Before that it was mostly little clips or scenes, what a shame they couldn't fit together and make a story. Damn that would be wild!

Question: Are all your stories posted on this site or do you have some secret stories you don’t want to publish for the public?

All the finished ones are on here. I have several that I work on here and there when inspired. Or something triggers a thought.

Question: How long does it take for you to write a complete story? How does the process go?

That part is kind of iffy, when motivated I've written one in a couple days, then I reread and reread, over and again, each time making changes. Then I think about it some more. I don't know how many I've just tossed, thinking it was a bad one. And a couple I wasn't sure of I've asked a special online friend for his opinion. "Two heads better then one" thing.

Question: What is the hardest part of writing a story?

For me it's deciding how far to take it. I tend to have a vivid imagination and sometimes it can be a bit wicked. So I try to keep it in check so to speak. LOL...

Question: How do you come up with your story titles?

Hmmmm, good question, I think I just ponder over the story and try to sum it up in a few words or so but then sometimes it just pops in to my mind.

Question: The characters in your stories, are they based on true people, if it’s a fantasy story?

Pretty much all are real people in my life. Sometimes the story lines are things that happen with that person, sometimes it's things we've talked about. And sometimes it's just wishful thinking, lol. I have written a couple stories for online friends, kind of fulfilling their fantasies.

Question: Do you have a favourite author on ES and if so, why?

I have several favorites, not necessarily the most popular on our site, but based on their stories. Some long time writers here and some with only a story or two. Everyone needs encouragement, especially ones that are new or only a story or two. posted. So much writing potential on our site.

Question: Is there anybody on this site, who you would like to see interviewed? And why?

There are so many great authors on our site, a few being ProfessorJames, diamonddan, fantomguy, Oneguy4fun, Sportsdvl to name more then a few of the well established ones, the list can go on, lol...Too many to name, not enough room to list them. I think it would be nice to hear from all, but since we can't, maybe some of the ones that have many stories posted, if they've been here awhile they obviously know what their doing!

Besides a few with only a couple stories. Hockeysub, Debbie&Elliott, KneelOver23, Lorne Guyland, Executive Gent...to name just a few, well more then a few I guess, lol...

Question: Do you also publish your stories on other sites and if so, why?

I have, I've listed them on Literotica, I wondered about the low vote count here compared to how many times read, so I posted them there to see if it was just the readers from our site that doesn't vote very much. Rude awakening, maybe more people read them there, but less people vote and even less then that sends feedback. Maybe it's just my stories, I'm not sure.

Question: What do you like the most and the least about writing erotic stories?

Well, I like being able to express myself, about things I think about, And hearing back from readers when they really enjoy them.

The worse would be that unfortunately I can't share them with just anyone I know, most wouldn't understand. Or wouldn't admit to reading them much less thinking it, lol.

Question: What genre don’t you like at all? And what kind would you never write?

I think probably the same kind of taboos most writers here wouldn't but definitely not anything violent or involved children or bathroom games or whatever, just not my thing. Usually the things I don't read I'd never write about either.

Question: Have you ever done research for a part of a story you didn’t have any knowledge about?

LOL, yes I have and what I don't know about or can't tryout, I usually ask friends if they have or do they think it's possible. I try to stick with something that's close to reality or not to far off anyway, lol.

Question: Have you learned anything you would like to share since you started writing erotic stories?

I think that's there's always room for improvement, no one is perfect. I had a story that I posted on Literotica, and I received some negative feedback from it. They actually left their email address, so I emailed asking for their thoughts on it. They couldn't give specifics, but said I should read some of theirs, which I did, (I'm always willing to learn something) although they could only say that my story wasn't organized, I could easily point out several boo-boos, meaning no one is perfect, and we can just try our best, and hope we learn from our mistakes.

Question: Which of your stories is your personal favourite, or one you enjoyed writing the most, or which one holds the best memories or feelings for you?

Believe it or not, I think it would be 'Photo Shoot-Real or Fantasy?' That was pretty much true! And as much fun as it was when it happened it was even more so when I sat down to write it, there was no doubt that I would, it was an awe inspiring day! One of those experiences that you could remember every detail. But then I obviously liked them since I wrote them.

Question: When you receive comments, obviously you would enjoy the positive ones, but if you receive negative ones, do you just ignore them, build from them, or let it put a negative image over the story itself, and let it hinder your writing?

I really try to take the bad with the good. There have been a couple of occasions when it put a damper on my writing. Most times I try to take into account all feedback, try to garner any improvements I can make. I've even quizzed my writer friend on if he felt it was founded, he felt it wasn't. And since I value his opinion, I just let it go.

Question: If there was one trait you could take out of one of your stories, and put it in place in your real life, what would it be and why?

Most of the stories all have a little bit of Me in them, so that would be hard.

Question: What is the impact of having fans had on your writing and your everyday life?

Through my writing I've met and befriended many people from all over the world. And I can 'Thank Art' for that, having this wonderful site to post our stories to Some I talk to almost everyday, some friendships have grown to chatting on the phone. Our lives very intermingled for sure. Some I can't imagine not being in my life in some sort of capacity. Very good friends for sure.

Question: Are you anything like your characters you write in real life?

Ummmm well yes I am, or should I say they're like Me, like an extension. For Me it helps writing my stories, I can place myself in the scenario and what I would do seems to come out.

Question: We already know you enjoy erotic stories, but do you also enjoy the visual side of erotica, as in porn movies? If so, any favourites?

Yes, I do and I know most say women aren't visual, but given the right circumstances, pictures/movies are very erotic! Since I write more Femdom (Am into) , I'd have to say that particular type puts Me in the zone, lol.

Question: What’s the kinkiest thing you have done in your life so far?

To some it wouldn't seem kinky but to others it might, but I'd have to say the FemDom thing, well that and I'm an exhibitionist. I tend to enjoy it in the great outdoors. Obviously nowhere inappropriate, but places most would least likely want to. Poor hubby he's not an exhibitionist at all, but a good sport...After all he benefits also from it. too!

Question: Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfil?

I think we all have them just a matter of whether we're willing to take it that far. Most wont, whether it be not practical or leaving well enough alone. I like to push it as far as I can. Kind of like 'snow' gee I definitely have a thing for it, or should I say in it, I know I'm bad huh?

Question: Have you ever done erotic photography? If not, would you like to be photographed or not?

Well, yes I have a little bit, obviously from one of My stories. I haven't done any total nudes. I have thought of talking to the photographer from that shoot, would make another cool present, but...since hubby doesn't like to share, I think that might be something I should think twice about. Not sure how he'd feel about his wifey showing all of herself to the photographer.

Question: What is your favourite position?

Oh My, now that choices I like! I'd have to say doggy-style is always good...I'm always open to suggestions, I drive him crazy at times, He says that's what keeps life interesting! But then I think sex is good whenever, wherever possible! You'd think after being married this long, it would pale a bit. But nope still very much alive and stronger then when we were first married!

Question: Do you believe in one-night stands?

I have to say I have had them, but always practiced the safe/sane thing. Sometimes just a nice mindless umm encounter is just what you need, free of all the problems relationships can cause. I mean before being married that is, lol...

Question: What is a major turn on for you during sex?

I'm a very oral person, giving and receiving, so that's kind of big with Me. Lots of kissing to all parts. There's the middle, ummm ....Then there's the little cuddle afterwards while you catch your breath, that's always good...

Question: Sextalk. Do you like or dislike talking during sex?

I very much love and enjoy 'sex talk' ... I'm very verbal during sex as well, isn't that part of it though? Hubby says I should be a phone sex operator, He says I have that kind of voice. :)

Question: What is a major turn off for you during sex?

There really isn't one I don't think. Well, other then no girl on girl action, I wouldn't mind a normal threesome, just not girl on girl action, no offense to each their own, just not My thing. Since long time married I don't have to worry about him being a little selfish, after all he has to sleep some time right, lol Just kidding, I'd never abuse him, lol....Much.

Question: What do you think about solo sex?

Well, unfortunately with everyday life, sex between couples doesn't always happen. And if you're in the mood, you have to take care of those needs. Especially since the mind plays a big part in it.. And isn't that what they make 'toys' for?

Question: Your biggest mistake or shameful moment in bed?

I really don't think I have one. Hubby and I are very open to discussion, so we keep the air clear, and we are able to communicate ours wants and needs, granted what we want can't always happen, but at least we know where we stand with each other.

Question: Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview? Now is your chance...

I'd like to thank the readers for perusing our site, and ask them that if they enjoyed the story, to take a moment to vote. If they are so compelled to, to also send us feedback, in most cases it can make us better writers and gives us an idea of what they like or dislike, the kinds of stories they'd like to see, too..... So just keep checking back with us!

If you want to check out Tich's stories, you can find them under the author names Mz Tich and Mistress Tich.

Well, I hope you enjoyed this interview and comments are welcome. So the more feedback, the bigger the chance that there will be another interview! If you have any questions you would like me to ask our next victim, let me know and I will fire them at him or her!

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