Myra Simmons's first story was published here a little over a year ago. Since then, she has published over a dozen tales, including a couple that had me glued to my chair. To begin with, who is Myra Simmons? How and when did you begin writing erotic stories?
I have been writing all my life, but most of it has been advertising ads. I did some technical writing as well but never anything like a novel or short story. So many people who know me and some of my adventures have told me I should write a book about myself. I always asked them who would want to read about a cum slut. At that point, one of them told me about a book called "The Happy Hooker" and how popular it was. That made me think about the idea. I started writing what I saw as chapters in such a book. When I showed them to some of my friends, they said I had to publish them somewhere. One mentioned ES and, when I checked out the site, I liked what I saw, so I decided to take the plunge. The rest, as they say, is history.
Have you published anywhere other than ES.com?
Recently I have published some stories on a site that used to be linked to ES called sexstoriespost. The stories I publish on SSP generally deal with topics that Art won't allow on ES. The site is a bit limited because you are actually writing the stories in a forum environment so they have to be rather short. They have a story section but, even there, most seem to be quite short. Anyone who has read any of mine know they tend to be a bit on the long side.
I'm sure readers have their own vision of what you look like, and who you are - how much of yourself do you include in your stories?
Most of my stories are about me and my adventures. The most recent additions are actually totally fictional and were written in collaboration with another author from the SSP site. That was the first time I've ever done that and it was quite enjoyable. Now, my stories aren't 100 percent non-fictional but pretty close. I have left out some of what happened in reality and massaged other incidents, usually compressing time-lines. And, of course, memories from long ago tend to blur anyway after a very full lifetime. Physically, I'm 48, stand 5 foot 7 inches, weigh about 140 pounds (I work out 3 - 5 days a week) and have waist length blonde hair. And, yes, it's natural. My breasts are 38C and my face has been described as pixie. As for looking like stars, someone once told me that I look like Vivian Leigh in "Gone With The Wind," just blonde. I'm not so sure about that comparison, really!
What is it about writing erotica that you most enjoy?
Well, since most of what I write is from experience, the erotica part allows me to remember those events and re-live them. I often find myself getting quite excited as I write. For the writing part, I can't believe the feedback I've gotten from a few readers and how it has helped me in my development as a writer. Huntergirl34, Cum Girl and Jillbaby as well as some others can feel free to take a bow and pat themselves on the back for the improvements I've made.
Do you write from experience or fantasy? Or maybe a combination of the two?
As I indicated earlier, most of my stories are based on my experiences. There was one chapter in my series about the first time I experienced the submissive role that was totally fictional and some readers called me on it. The chapter about sex with a stewardess on the plane was fictional but it was based on a dream I had during that flight after seeing the flirtatious look the flight attendant gave to me before I'd fallen asleep. I've always wondered what would have happened with her if I had made a move on her.
The current series I'm writing is total fiction and I have some other stories in mind that also have no basis in reality. I will continue to write stories about me, however, in the hope that they might, someday, become chapters in a book about my life and adventures.
Is there anything you have written into a story that you would really like to try in "real life", but haven't yet been able to?
No, not really. I think, in reality, I'm rather unimaginative sexually. I know what I've experienced and what I've liked, disliked and loved. What I liked, I would do again if given the chance. What I loved, I will seek out. To come up with something to write into a story that I've never actually done would be quite difficult for me.
Does your partner or any of your friends know that you write? What do they think?
Oh yes! They all know. Both my girlfriend, Nancy and my fiancé, Tyrone, read over my stories. Sometimes they even remember details and help me make the story more complete. I often worry about using their actual names in the stories I write but both have said they are ok with it and actually like seeing their names in published stories. I think they both like to remember the events as they read them from my perspective. I think it has actually improved the relationships I have with both of them.
How about in more general terms - how do you feel about the "outside world's" perception of erotic writing?
I've always been faced with the general aversion to sexuality in our society. Even as the restrictions have loosened, we are still a very Puritanical culture and sexually suppressed. Of course, all that does is lead to a whole group of sexual "perversions" as the very normal, healthy sexual needs of individuals seek outlet. Erotica is one of those more innocent outlets.
I find it amazing how many people condemn it but see nothing wrong with Romance Novels and some of the mainstream authors. Add the term "erotic" to literature and, all of a sudden, it's bad. Some of the scenes in modern literature are every bit as steamy and sensual as what is in some erotic stories. I remember reading a Danielle Steel book once and thinking it was an erotic novel. The book, The Godfather, also had a very erotic and sexual scene in it. I guess my answer to the question is that I feel the outside world is very hypocritical because they condemn it and also crave it.
One thing that I love about ES is that you very quickly build up a community of fans, who enjoy writing to and hearing from their favorite authors. Do you have any favorite topics that have surfaced in these "conversations"?
I enjoy the feedback e-mails from readers; they are usually quite entertaining and, often, quite arousing. Hearing that a guy or gal has read my story and couldn't help but get off and that it left them panting really gets my juices flowing. I love giving pleasure to others, both men and women. Some, I've responded to in a flirtatious manner and it has developed into a nice, saucy give and take. Actually, one response led to an ongoing sharing that led to a totally fictional story about him and some of his friends. It's my story titled "Gang Banged and Bred." He actually hopes to turn that shared fantasy of his into a reality.
How do you feel when you receive negative comments or very low votes from readers?
I used to get quite upset with the low votes, taking it to mean my writing was extremely poor or offensive. When the votes were from Anonymous or the person would not respond to a query, I soon realized that the problem was on their end and not mine. When the person did respond, I took their comments and accepted them for what they were; their perspective on my story. Some have actually helped to point out gaps in my writing and, therefore, helped me to improve. Now, I realize that you haven't made an impression with a story until you've gotten the obligatory 5 vote. I even garnered a 1 vote on a story! Now, I just shrug at the low votes.
As for the negative comments, they have been few and usually have some value. One indicated that there wasn't enough character development in a long story. They were right, when I thought about it. I know the characters and myself and was making assumptions that the reader would also know them as they read the story. I found I was concentrating on the actions and not the emotions and personalities involved. A very negative comment but a very helpful one, too! That story will be rewritten if it becomes part of my story and I will include insights into my thoughts and feelings and those of the other participants. Of course, there are some that are not helpful but vindictive. Those I just accept and then let go, since I cannot change someone's negative perceptions, preconceptions and prejudices.
What kind of stories would you never write?
I would never write a story with real violence in it. Sexual domination, sexual punishment, yes, but not real violence. Sex for me is God's very special gift to humanity as a playground, escape, stress relief and source of pleasure and joy and a way to bond tightly to someone else. Humanity is the only animal that we know of that has self-awareness and I see sexual pleasure, totally disconnected from reproduction, as a gift to help us deal with the negative aspects of that self-awareness. And, I know some will argue with that observation but, until another species tells us they are self-aware, we really don't know. I know violence and sex often go hand-in-hand in reality but that is a true perversion to me. It has nothing to do with love, mutual respect, play and release. It is selfish, destructive, dehumanizing for both parties. I see no excitement or eroticism in such stories so, of course, I would never consider writing one.
And do you read, and respond to, other writers on the site? Who are your favorites?
Of course! How else can you learn about them and how they develop their stories? How else can you talk shop and learn and grow? I've enjoyed conversations with several other authors on here, including HunterGirl34, Jillbaby and Cum Girl and all have helped me to grow and develop as a result of their advice and comments. That doesn't mean that I will use everything they offered in every story but I do draw on their aid and keep it in mind as I write. It's helped me to be a bit more structured in my writing. The main aspect is in editing, which is something I tend to hate doing. Forcing myself to do it has helped immensely and has resulted in a more polished end product that I feel quite proud to have written.
You don't have a photograph posted on your profile. Will we ever get to see Myra Simmons for ourselves?
Unfortunately, the answer is no, I will not post a picture of myself. I've been burned that way in the past so I won't post my image, standard or erotic, on the net.
Have you ever been filmed or photographed having sex?
Yes to both, which is why I won't post a picture now. When I was just out of college and in my first, very lucrative job, I went to an office party at the home of one of the VP's. I was the only woman there and it got quite wild, with lots of loud music, forbidden substances and booze. I drank enough to have a good buzz when one of the guys asked to dance with me and I did. It turned into a grope-fest which I allowed and enjoyed.
As cameras flashed, I ended up doing a striptease and then it turned into an orgy. I had sex in every possible way, in every possible combination with the men there. I didn't know that the entire scene was being photographed and video-taped. What made it really bad was that they put an album of the pictures together and made a video from the various recorders in use that night and distributed both to all the guys who were there. Well, one left the video in a spot where his wife found it.
Let's just say it wasn't well received when she had a wives party and showed the video and then the pictures she'd found after the tape. It cost me a lot of embarrassment and a job I really loved. I resolved then that no one would have pictures of me, normal or sexual after that. Now, I allow my fiancée to take pictures of me in the nude or having sex but only with my awareness of it and he always gives me the camera chip afterward so I am the sole possessor of the images. He knows I'll let him see them whenever he wants and he'll look at them or watch them with me beside him, usually with my head in his lap. And, yes, sometimes, that will involve sex.
I can understand your reluctance! Okay, do you remember the first pornography you ever saw?
No, not really, but it was when I was very young. I know it was with my brother, who is 18 months older than I. Whenever he discovered anything interesting, he would always share it with me.
What's the kinkiest thing you have ever done?
I'm not sure that I can mention that on this site! Let's just say that what I consider the kinkiest, based on how people usually respond, is something that Art would not allow on ES. One I considered to be really kinky was drinking Nancy's pee when we were in the middle of a four-way union. She had to go and the guys and I didn't want to stop. Since I was sucking on her clit anyway, I told her to let it go. When she finally did, I took all of it. What surprised me was how sensual it felt and how not unpleasant it was. It's not something I'd do routinely but I did enjoy it, coming from her.
Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfill?
Yes, but it never will be. I ache to have my fiancée make love to me, fill me with his fertile sperm and create life within me. I yearn to feel my body change as our union grows inside me; watch my belly swell, my breasts fill with milk, my ass get rounded. He's younger than I am and quite capable of impregnating a fertile woman. But, I've never been able to conceive and I am now too old for that. Yes, we could use artificial means but, if it were to happen, I want it to be the natural, old-fashioned way.
What is a major turn on for you during sex?
My partner's lust for me and desire to pleasure me. To see his/her face and watch their motions as they work to make me cum and then to see their happiness when I do is phenomenal. It makes me want to pleasure them fully in return. Of course, I am a cum slut so the ultimate turn-on for me is to feel the contents of his balls being pumped deeply into my receptive body. I find it hard to describe the absolute and total fulfillment and pleasure that explodes within me when I feel cum entering me.
How about a major turn off?
Well, I am claustrophobic so any kind of binding is a turn-off for me. I have been led around by a chain on a collar on my throat, pinned under lovers in missionary positions, held tightly as I was being fucked in various ways and my emotions ranged from total enjoyment to accepting them. Don't try to tie me up or handcuff me; that would trigger a fierce panic response and would not end up in sex of any kind, let alone fulfilling and pleasurable sex.
How do you feel about same sex relationships, both personally and as a writer?
Well, let's just say I have had many lovers in my lifetime and most of them, but not all, have been men. Currently, I have two primary lovers; Tyrone, my young, black man and Nancy, my raven haired beauty. I love sex in every variation with both of them, sometimes together, and snuggling up naked with them when we are pleasured. I guess you could say that I love same-sex relationships and gladly indulge in them. Nancy and I are as bound together as are Tyrone and I. Friends who see the three of us together say we all make a perfect couple. I love that.
Now, two men together is something I've never really experienced but I've found myself thinking about it. I've seen some gay pictures and videos and I always just want to crawl under the guy being fucked and take that hard cock into my mouth. I have to say, it made my pussy very wet. I don't think I'd write about it, however, because I don't know enough about it to make it even seem real. Maybe one day, however, I will attempt it.
Do you explore these feelings, positive and negative in your stories?
The positive explorations I think you'll find in my stories; pretty much all of them. I've explored some of my negative feelings as well, especially my feelings about being turned into a submissive, which was quite difficult for a stubborn, independent woman like me. I think some of that came out in the story, as well as how fulfilling it was to me in the end. As far as negative feelings about same-sex relationships, I've never explored them because I don't really have any. I guess the worst my feelings are about gay sex is that, when I see it, I just wish that the cum was pumping into me. I guess it's just my jealous lust for cum. Other than that, it leaves me neutral at worst and aroused at best.
How long does it take for you to write a story? Could you talk us through the process?
Most of my stories are rather lengthy so they do take a bit of time to write. Before I start, the story is usually finished in my mind and it's just a matter of transcribing it. When I actually write, I usually do it quite quickly, trying to pour the words onto the page before I lose them. I write in spurts, based on the time available and the mood. Most of my stories are from my real life but I do have some from other sources. I've found that erotic chats can lead to some pretty good ideas, like "Gang Banged and Bred" and my current series. I find that, when I begin to flirt with someone, man or woman, the interaction gets me aroused and my mind racing. If the interactive exploration of the idea is exciting and pleasurable for both, or all, of us, then it will usually form into a story line in my mind. If I can, I'll start writing it but, if not, write a note for myself with the basic details. I have a few like that now, waiting to be written.
Right now, your most popular story is My First Time With Tyrone, with an average vote of 9.63. Do you agree that this is your best? Why do you think it struck such a chord?
Is it really? I never noticed which had the highest score. I know they are all in the 9 range. First Time is one of my favorites because it describes how Tyrone and I met and how quickly we bonded emotionally and physically. I always heard that when "Mr. Right" is there, I'll know it. I never believed that and just took men and women as they came and enjoyed what relationships, sexual or not, I had with them. Tyrone and I had talked on the phone a bit as part of my company taking on his ad account. When he and his staff came in and I saw him and looked into his eyes, I knew. He did too, as it turned out. Our relationship became so strong and so obvious that I gave up his company's account to another group within the company to prevent any conflict of interest problems.
Actually, my favorite was the series about being with him and his friends when he played the role of my master. It was a traumatic change for me, but a very fulfilling one which increased the bond between us. It was a first for me to let go of my fears and trust him, or anyone, enough to become submissive. He took control of my life that weekend and held my safety in his hands and, in the process, brought me the highest level of pleasure and fulfillment I'd ever experienced. And, he kept me safe, putting my welfare first and proving to me his love and devotion to me. How could I not fall even more deeply in love with him after that? Now, when I am feeling a bit down, I put on the collar he gave me that weekend and go to him wearing it and he knows I am his to order and dominate. He also knows I need him to coddle me and protect me. And he always does.
When he defended me against his own mother over Thanksgiving, something I plan on writing about in the near future, that sealed the deal between us and we became totally bound physically and emotionally. I guess between the two stories, they are the most important to me because they address what is the core of my being and the gateway to my future happiness and completion.
The first of your stories I read, which was also the first you posted here, was Emergence of a Slut, which opens with one of my all time favorite paragraphs: "My name is Myra and I proudly admit that I am a cum loving slut." Sister, I salute you. Tell us more!
I have to laugh; it doesn't surprise me that you like that line. It is what I am; a cum slut. I love the feel and taste of cum entering my body. I refuse to let a man use a condom when he penetrates me because I want to feel his flesh against mine, savor the heat radiating from him and joining mine, the slipperiness that happens as his pre-cum leaks out and coats me. I want to smell his arousal, his passion, his power. I want to feel his need and lust as he takes me, enters me, possess me. I want to feel him lose all control of himself in his lust to mate with me and empty his balls into me.
Like you, I love oral sex because I can enjoy all those sensations on my lips and tongue as well as taste him and smell his sex when I bury my face in his groin. And, yes, before that happens he'd better be well washed! I've had many occasions when my own arousal was tied to his; my own fulfillment based on his, to the point that I came hard when he started pumping cum down my throat. I don't think many women can orgasm as a result of the feel of their man's cum on their tongue and throat and its taste in their mouth but, for me, it easily puts me over the top.
Now, that makes me sound like a total tramp as I re-read it. I guess I am, in a limited way.
I disagree, and not only because you and I seem to share the exact same DNA when it comes to sex, and oral sex in particular. A tramp tends not to have standards - and you clearly do.
I won't have sex with a guy just because he's a guy and has his balls full of cum. I have to sense that he is attracted to me and will focus on pleasuring me, rather than using me as a cum dump. I also won't let anyone touch me until they can prove that they are STD free. Once I feel comfortable with someone and there is some kind of emotional link, then its let the games begin!
Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...
I'd like to thank them for their interest in me and for reading my stories. To those who have shown me their enjoyment of the stories, or not, with their comments and votes, I offer a special Thank You. To those who have helped me to improve my craft on my journey to becoming a proficient author, what can I say, but that I am deeply indebted to you.
I hope to write many more stories, both fictional and non-fictional as I have time and as ideas develop in my blonde head. For both men and women, I hope my stories excite you, open your imagination, make you touch yourselves and bring you sexual fulfillment. I also hope they entertain you and hold your interest and that you find them worthy of the time and effort you take to read them. And, I do hope you'll let me know if I've succeeded or failed in writing stories that you enjoy on many levels, not just sexual.
Finally, do you have a website or a blog, where your fans can visit and maybe learn more about you?
No, I don't have one. I'm actually quite a novice with computers, relying on my company's IT guys to handle all that stuff. I just use them for work and, oh yes, writing erotic stories. Maybe, one day, I'll have someone set up a site for me and include all my stories from ES and SSP as well as any others I might write. Maybe that is where my story will end up being published.
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