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JADE PILLOW INTERVIEW

Jade Pillow is a relative newcomer to ES, having published his first story a little over a year ago.

Okay, is there anything you'd like to tell us about yourself?

Well, I'm a bartender and I'd say weightlifting is my favorite hobby. I have a tendency toward tight athletic physiques in both men and women and I like to keep my body in shape.

Q. How and when did you begin writing erotic stories?

Actually, I used to dabble in chat lines and I started experimenting through those channels. One chat line in particular had a "fantasy line" where callers could record erotic stories and stuff like that. So, my first experiences with erotic fiction were actually audio recordings. I used to love leaving hot stories on there and listening to all the women respond and tell me how they'd cum to the sound of my voice; it was a huge turn-on and of course lot of fun! To this day I love erotic stories, writing and reading them.

Q. Have you published anywhere other than ES.com?

So far no.

Q. What is it about writing erotica that you most enjoy?

Well, you get a chance to go into another world--- a great world where we can create the perfect sexual encounters and experiences. I think for those of us with both healthy sex drives and healthy imaginations it's just the perfect past time.

Q. What is your favorite category to write in, and why?

I often write about threesomes particularly of the MMF variety. Over the years the MMF scenario has just become more and more of a turn-on and these days I'm amazed at how often I think about it when I'm fantasizing. There is just something about a woman sucking and fucking two men that turns me on beyond belief. Perhaps it's the power?? Perhaps the confidence it takes for a woman to pursue such an encounter?? It's just hot to me on so many levels. I've always thought it must be such a rush for a woman to be so completely and totally the center of attention like that....

Q. How much of yourself do you include in your stories?

A lot. Particularly the things that turn me on like threesomes and tight mini-skirts and that kind of thing. Anyone that has read my stories can see a theme there.... I like tight clothes that are preferably black. I like strong confident women.....I like knee-high boots.

Q. Is there anything that happens in your stories that you would really like to try in "real life", but haven't yet been able to?

My ultimate fantasy is impossible to experience (unless of course reincarnation is real which I don't think it is) and that is to experience sex as a woman. So, I suppose The Big Switch would apply there. I have never fooled around in a hot tub believe it or not, so perhaps Fun At The Sex Spa would fit the bill.

Q. Does your partner or any of your friends know that you write? What do they think?

I'm living the good life baby, I'm single. A few of the hotties I work with know that I write although I'm yet to have them read any of my stories.

Q. What, if any, difficulties do you face when writing - erotic writing difficulties and general writing difficulties? And how do you overcome them?

Well, I tend to be in too much of a rush to get to the sex and speed past the build up. Personally, I like reading about the actually sex more than anything and so perhaps that shows in my writing. I like to cut right to the good stuff. I need to learn to spend more time writing my stories and relax the process, perhaps just writing one paragraph a day or something like that.

Q. How about in more general terms - how do you feel about the "outside world"'s perception of erotic writing?

I think the outside world thinks it's cheesy. "Dear Penthouse, I never thought this would happen to me...." You know, it's amazing how few people actually have a creative imaginative side when it comes to sex. I'm often amazed how boring most women are when it comes to sex and it's hard to find a woman that's on my level. For example I've always wanted to write a story with a woman where we take turns writing paragraphs and keep building it and building it, but to find a woman with that desire and ability is impossible. I'm starting to think that in fact most people are full of sexual fantasies and ideas they just can't express them as well as others.

Q. One thing that I love about ES is that you very quickly build up a community of fans, who enjoy writing to and hearing from their favorite authors. Do you have any favorite topics that have surfaced in these "conversations"?

I love hearing women describe their orgasms and The Big Switch brought up some very interesting chats with women. A lot of women found the story interesting and asked me to describe my orgasm and in turn they described theirs to me. I have actually kept some of those chats and I like to read them from time to time. I also love women responding to my MMF stories since so many women have the fantasy of being with two guys, but have never done it. The responses I get from my stories is the best part of writing.

Q. How do you feel when you receive negative comments or very low votes from readers?

I don't give a flying fuck. Anyone who thinks everyone is going to like them needs a serious dose of reality. There is one female writer on ES who sends mean e-mails to me if I don't rate her stories a 10, which is probably why shes one of the highest rated writers on here; I'm sorry I didn't realize it was a popularity contest. I'm a confident male with a fully formed ego and I don't need people to like me. Look, when you put something out there some people are going to like it and some aren't, the ones that love us are called our fans and that's why we cherish them!!

Q. And do you read, and respond to, other writers on the site? Who are your favorites?

Absolutely. I have a few favorites although they aren't authors in the top ten or anything. What I look for in a story is realism. I find a lot of stories are cliché and tired. The guys in these stories always have massive cocks, the women always swallow and love anal. My experience has been that most women really can't stand cum and the thought of swallowing it makes them sick, although I guess that's why they call them fantasies. My favorite authors then to be writers who write with a certain feeling of reality. (Sorry to say, but 99% percent of the men out there are going to go limp after an orgasm unless they're 21 lol)

Q. Do you remember the first pornography you ever saw?

Hell yessssss. A friend of mine had a tape that he lent me which had a couple of hot sex scenes on it, I used to sneak it in the VCR after school when nobody was home. One scene in particular really stood out to me and to this day I think it's why I love reverse cow girl on the couch so much!!

Q. What's the kinkiest thing you have ever done?

Well, I'm not sure if it qualifies as "kinky" since I suppose that's a subjective term but certainly I think a double penetration qualifies as somewhat kinky, no??

Q. Do you have any fantasies that you would like to fulfill?

I have a lot of porn fantasies and I would love to direct one, and also star in one as well!! There is nothing sexier and more erotic than capturing sex and orgasm on film where that brief moment of pleasure is forever captured and can be watched again and again by thousands of people. I don't know why people are so paranoid about their pics and vids getting around on the internet. To me there is nothing hotter than the thought of people watching me fuck; I like to be looked at.

Q. What is a major turn on for you during sex?

The female orgasm is mind blowing to me which is why I'd love to experience one. Simple seeing and hearing and feeling a female orgasm is a huge turn-on for me.

Q. How about a major turn off?

Fake orgasms. (I rarely see them of course-ha ha ) Also, I can't be with a woman that doesn't love oral sex. It's amazing how common it is for women to either hate giving oral or to hate receiving it. There is nothing sexier than oral sex, it feels great and doesn't cause pregnancy; how great is that?? I love oral sex so a woman has to be on board otherwise it's "....uh waiter, check please!!"

Q. How do you feel about same sex relationships, both personally and as a writer?

I'm quite liberal and don't really care what two people are doing in the privacy of their own bedrooms and neither should you really. I however don't have a ton of interest in homo sexual experiences involving men, women of course are another story.

Q. Do you explore these feelings, positive and negative in your stories?

Not yet no.

Q. How long does it take for you to write a story? Could you talk us through the process?

Honestly, about three hours but it should take more. Like I said earlier in the interview I tend to rush my stories a bit. I think however there is an audience out there for faster moving stories that get straight to the point and that is really my specialty I think. I have no problem being known as the guy who gets straight to the sex.

Q. What do you think is the best story you have published here?

Hmmmmm, excellent question!! I like Limosine Doubleteam myself.

Q. Is there anything else you would like to say to the readers of this interview and your fans? Now is your chance...

Just to keep the e-mails and ideas coming. I love it when a fan gives me an idea for a story, it makes it so much hotter knowing I'm writing it to such an attentive audience that is savouring every word!

Q. Finally, do you have a website or a blog, where your fans can visit and maybe learn more about you?

A: Yes, I just recently started a website and feel free to check it out!! I have some of my favorite stories on there as well some erotic audio and pics!!

www.wix.com/jade_pillow/jade-pillow

Please read Jade Pillow's stories.